Sunday, May 9, 2010

Love: The Melter of All Negative Formations

As promised, some pointers from the Dharma talk:


- We all have a ‘knife’ in our heart, or knives. Where is the knife in my heart? Who shall I forgive for those knives?

- What knives have I thrown? What suffering have I caused? Have I asked for forgiveness?

- Have we ever thought that people who ‘throw knives’ at others, is because they are in pain, they have a ‘knife’ in their hearts. This is not a justification, this is nature

- Cultivate the happy- when we are not in anger or in fear, when we have those moments of no-craving and we are just happy, be aware of those, and water those seeds; they will be our antidote for the moments of anger, fear, craving.

- Acknowledge be aware of the negative emotions/mental formations and acknowledge it and treat it with the opposite. Usually love/loving kindness/compassion melts all.

- Separation creates anxiety & fear. How to tackle this? With openness, connectedness.

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